Q&A: I have to get her back, please help.?

Question by ZenJoker: I have to get her back, please help.?
I was a dick and she dumped me, this was months ago. I have learned alot since then, but to even show her this Id have to re-attract her first. We barely talk and each time we do I try to convince her that Im different now, of course this doesnt work but I can never think of anything else to do, I just go all out and it only makes it worse. Im not about to give up on her though, not yet, not until I at least try some more crafty methods.

How can I make HER want ME back? any advice would help alot, Im sick of websites “buy my e-book” bullshizz. lol

Best answer:

Answer by lewislola95
First of all stop saying that you have changed. No one will ever belive this. if she thinks that u act like a jerk, prove her wrong. I’m not saying to get another girl to make her jealous. I’m saying that when ur with ur buddies and she’s around be a gentleman.

Give your answer to this question below!

Post Tags:

back, help, Please,
3 Responses to Q&A: I have to get her back, please help.?
  1. Jon S says:
    January 6, 2011 at 3:32 pm

    Well you can’t MAKE her want you. Go small at first, then work your way back up to possibly dating. Ask her on a date, just to a movie or dinner or something just as friends. Get back into touch, and just try to show her that you changed.

    Don’t make a big scene about it like “See I’m different now, I changed I promise”. It never works. Just show her that your a gentleman, try to be friends for now, and just work your way back up to where you were.

    This may or may not work.. all girls are different, and it all depends on what you did wrong, but begging or acting desprate doesn’t prove anything to her.

    Good Luck Man!

  2. QQ says:
    January 6, 2011 at 3:44 pm

    Step One: STOP TRYING TO CONVINCE HER EVERY TIME YOU TALK TO HER! If that’s what you do the few times you talk, she’s probably thinking it’s just you worming your way back in and it’s all talk.

    You need to SHOW her through actions. Maybe give her tickets to her favorite sport of band and tell her you would really like to go with her and spend some time with her. Explain to her that you just want this one date and if it doesn’t work out then… she can ignore you. Show her the improved you during this date.

  3. Jaycee says:
    January 6, 2011 at 4:22 pm

    Do something that you normally wouldn’t do for her. Go completely out of your way just to attract her. Like send her flowers with a card saying that you were sorry and you want to try to be together if she was willing to give you a chance.

    DO NOT GO AROUND SAYING YOU’VE CHANGED. She’s not going to believe you.

    Be a gentleman around everyone. ESPECIALLY HER.
    Prove to her you’ve changed. Don’t just say it.

    If you try and try and all you get is a negative response. Give up for awhile and try and let her come to you.

    If you were being a pain, its going to take her awhile to forgive you. Give her space, but at the same time, stress that you want her back.

    Hope everything works out my friend.

Leave a Reply